This week, make an appointment to speak either in person or by phone, with someone who is living the life you are discerning. 

If you are discerning priesthood, contact a priest.

If you are discerning religious life, contact a religious community..

Make a list of questions to ask.

What is your apostolate?

What are your requirements for entry?

What is your daily routine?

What is your daily prayer life?

And any other information you wish. 

You can only discern if you have information to discern with. This week, begin to gather information in person by speaking with a living human being. You can often get a different feel than by visiting a website.